Wednesday, October 11, 2017


Well, it took awhile, had to fight crashed databases, mucked up scrambled config files and all sorts of other nasties but I finally added/updated the link to this blog. (Oh Joy, Big Deal So What?) Now it will be interesting to see if there are any readers out there.  I'll think positive but I'm not going to expect much based on past letdowns. 

Whatever, at least it's a place I can post stuff and remain in control of it all avoiding the status quo censorship crap.  I've gotten sick of people warning me about youngsters using FB knowing that by the time said youngsters reach the minimum required 17 years of age. Most have come into contact with far worse.  But I digress, so now I have a place of my very own where I can write or post whatever the fuck I want without digital hand slapping...

Monday, October 9, 2017

FABREZE - Cuz some of the things you like Stink!!

Have you seen the new TV commercial yet?

FABREZE COMMERCIAL: - Cuz some of the things 'you like' Stink!!

--->>> Does this go for ASSHOLES and gay men??

What's that smell???

Dick-In-A-Box sounds better than Grindr or Tinder

Dick-In-A-Box sounds better than Grindr or Tinder

posted Sep 4, 2017, 4:04 AM by Rik Wallin
If Jack In The Box is for food and sandwiches why not Dick In The Box for Sex and Blowjobs?  Doesn't it make more sense?  I mean really, no need for hidden innuendo in wording.  Don't like the word Dick? How about Cock? After all, it's the thing rural peeps wake up listening to each morning and Men all over the world wake up to calling it 'Morning Wood' don't they?? Instead, people who don't like the "vulgarity" of words (which I think is absolutely stupid) go far and out of their way to sprinkle glitter on things they don't like in the concept is more accepting.  Why?  Da'FuQ???   With all this horseshit, how come religion never had a commandment with 'Thou Shalt Not Use Yucky Words' since so many take such offense?  Or, maybe 'Thou Shalt Not Listen To Yucky Words' might be better for some.  Wouldn't want God to send you to Hail for sayin' Yucky words now would ya??

Free Social Sites for Adults

Free Social Sites for Adults

posted May 14, 2017, 10:26 PM by Rik Wallin
As a gay dude you can probably guess that I have my share of dude porn stored on various hard drives. I've been working for a past few days trying to build my own Bulletin Board type systems that won't smack my hands and cut me off for showing a picture of a man's dick in another man's mouth.  So I thought I'd try my luck at running and building my own phpBB on my own net server space.  It came along nicely till I learned that I could only contribute the types of files they chose and reprimanded for trying to post a couple shared videos.   From there I went to Google's Blogger.. no luck there either.. and then I finally settled with Tumblr which doesn't censor your shit.  So far, so good and if all goes well over the new few days I'll have the official "RumpRangers" site online soon.

Mother's Day Is Right Around The Corner

Mother's Day Is Right Around The Corner

posted May 10, 2017, 11:57 AM by Rik Wallin   [ updated May 10, 2017, 12:14 PM ]
This coming weekend is Mom's day and this time I'm not all melancholy or sad about my mom's passing. I do find it sad that I have absolutely no ties to any of my family members  and think it's sad that things could have gotten so bad all over a political gaff and snarky remark. In my early teen days, my bro and sis used to get dragged everywhere with me because mom and dad were stuck working and couldn't afford care peeps to step in.  Yup, it was all me.. the dishwasher, laundry dude, the supper maker, the homework helper etc.  Nope, I wasn't some kind of saint so don't be putting me on on some kind or pedestal. I had my share of crazy drinking and pot smoking nights when I just had to get away from absolutely everything and everyone I called family. 

I had no intention of being a 24 hour care giver at age 17 when I had my own life to life but I still got by. 

So this year instead of being all mushy and stuff I'm thankful for the upbringing I had and thankful that I learned to grow up at a very early age making my own life decisions. (Thanks Mom!). I never did have much of a father per-se so that lady was the do all in my case. Since their pot and cocaine addicted father was never around I guess that made me the substitute instead. 

Now here we all all these years later through all the dramas and crap and just when you think you got it all down you wake up one morning and realize that you have no longer have any connection to the people you thought were your family. Sure I might be one of a kind in that regard because they all came from different marriages and fathers but it seemed really odd how not even a birthday or Christmas greeting in over a year makes you realize the lack of importance in it all.  When I moved to California I was 3100 miles away and only got the rare phone call or card for three years. Then moved back and felt not much less distant living right in the same state only to be changed again with the move to Texas.  So WTF, big deal so what... They never paid my rent, or bought my food, or stood there in support during my times of need.  Should I really feel sad over the way things have become at this time or take it as a blessing. Less money on gifts, less energy wasted on family drama and certainly no more disappointment. 

So yeah, happy Mother's Day!  Thanks Mom for all you taught me and sorry I couldn't have passed it on better to your other kids and grandkids.  I know all too well about the 'hard school of knocks' and now they can enjoy experiencing it too.  

Right now I'm staying busy rebuilding a hand-me-down iMAC, filtering all the bundles of crap saved from the Priscilla RV still cluttered in the back yard and taking a moment to appreciate my own self worth and my recovery from one of the most darkest times of my life.  Yeah, this memorial day weekend makes it 15 years that I was in Parkland Hospital in a coma after being hit by a drunk on my motorcycle. I guess in many ways I was able to beat all the odds but in the process of the hard road of recovery I learned more about the human element than expected.  As you know, opinions are like assholes cuz everyone's got one.  Why do so many seek approval from others in their choices? What benefit does this create?  In my case not doing so gives me extra power to focus forward rather than the spectators around me. 

In any case reader, (I doubt anyone's out there) take it all in stride and do an inventory of yourself now and then. Do it alone and quietly and it may very well help you in your future travels.  Blessings and Peace OUT Y'all... 

Without HIV there would be no Gay Hate

Without HIV there would be no Gay Hate

posted Mar 6, 2017, 8:34 AM by Rik Wallin
Do you realize based on the current state of things, there probably wouldn't be much hate for gays as there is today if we never encountered HIV.  No fear, no hiding, etc.  Just a couple dudes busting a nut and keeping the pregnancy rate low. Pulling the religion card would more or less just backfire and blow up in their faces if you did away with the fear factor of sodom and grimora blah blah blah. Ya feel what I'm getting at?  Do you see how our human race uses the element of fear to get people to move in the same direction whether they like it or not? I think it's funny how everyone always wants to compete to be "the authority" of an issue and once they get there all they want is for the world to leave them alone.  

Yup, Irony sure does have it's set of amusing features.  Too bad more peeps are too blind to see it. 

I've disowned my remaining living family.

I've disowned my remaining living family.

posted Mar 5, 2017, 6:28 PM by Rik Wallin   [ updated May 10, 2017, 12:15 PM ]
So my mom passed away and now my Sis voted for the chump.. errr ughh, Donnie Trump who wants to eliminate my equal rights as a Gay United States Citizen.  Fine, Good, Over and Out. There will be fewer holiday gifts to buy cuz as far as I'm concerned the association they had to me is dead and that was my mom.  Their father (my stepfather) was the one who sexually abused me from age 10 to 17 and I guess losing the affection from my 1/2 brother and sister is no great loss even though I was the one who raised them when their parental unit was too fucked up on weed or coke to care.

Hey, by now she's 43 with her own problems and drama but to vote for an asshole who wanted to revoke my legal married rights was a bit over the top for her and her children to boast about it..  Yup, you're right sister Tina, there's nothing I can say to make you change your mind (as you said verbatim) making me feel nothing more than a fucking placeholder in your twisted little life. 

My checking account was ZERO when mom died and worse, Sven's health was like a goddamn rollercoaster leaving me in a position that I couldn't go out there.  Sure it sucks, sure it hurts, but I really thought better of everyone knowing the life and death responsibilities I had to manage right here at home.   A $3,000 17" Intel Dual Core MacBook Pro, two iPads and iPhone that I passed on to the kids to help them in school and growing up and I later got one nephew telling Sven to just unfriend him because Hillary is an asshole liar-loser.   So much for elegance, class, and sophistication.  No worries sonny, neither you, your bro, mommy, or daddy are any longer in my will.  FULL STOP.  I thought of writing a letter to clearly explain further but the more I thought of it the more I'm no longer inclined to continue connection any further. 

For many years I was known as the emotional "Fixer" of the family always trying to keep people on track and at peace to avoid fights etc.. but now I've found a whole new level of freedom that none of you readers can comprehend without similar family dramas on your own. 

Wow, got emotion from all angles today.

Wow, got emotion from all angles today.

posted Jul 25, 2016, 4:06 PM by Rik Wallin
Early this morning I got into a snark with my sister, Tina Woloszyn and my two nephews.  It would seem the nephews are filled with hate over the democratic party and Hillary Clinton.  I find this shocking since Bill Clinton was responsible for having the lowest unemployment and trade deficit in the past three decades. Why does it always seem that it's easy to jump on the "crazy train" but they never seem to finish their homework before doing so??  Then I take control of my own life and get lots of opinion from outside about how I "should have" blah blah blah after the fact.  Today, it came down to the wire on my FaceBook page where I asked everyone on my friend list to please un-friend me if they plan to vote Trump.  Sis replies with snark about me being too political, taking FaceBook too seriously. Really? Too seriously? Ummm, let me review for a moment.  The only method I have of communication with my sister and her family is either by phone or over Facebook.  The last time I spoke to her was in January and last I checked this is July of 2016.  So mom croaks a year ago, I'm too poor to go east for the wake and funeral. I decline their offer to pay for air fare knowing they are financial recovering from foreclosure and bankruptcy themselves. Too Seriously?

So mom croaks and a lawyer is sending crap to me every two weeks cuz they're trying to off the house and the estate as quickly as possible. The house sells in the first quarter of 2016 and from there no further updates on stuff.   No itemized list of what was sold, the car, the interior furnishings, etc,  Nothing at all other than she mentioned she got 5,500 for the car that I recommended they save for my Nephew Aidan who was nearing the age of 16 and of driving age. But I digress...    So let's see, I'm too political because I'm worried that the country will be taken over by the orange faced penis seeking media attention but with little cold hard facts on how he's going to enforce the fantasies he plans to fix..   Maybe he could consider filing "National Bankruptcy" similar to the  stuff he did with his multitude of bogus companies.   Hello, yup, that's me, the unbelieving Democrat cast in concrete. The guy who took political action agains poppy Bush for turning away drug approval/therapy for dying AIDS victims.  Yup, far too political to get his ACT-UP group on the front of the Washington Post demanding compassionate help. Did I mention that George H. W. Busy was a republican just like this Trump person?   Suppose my nephew came down with AIDS from shooting drugs or kinky sex with...  whatever... and suppose this was about poppy Bush not providing drug help rushing my nephew to the express fate of death even though more could have been done. I wonder how "political" I would be accused of being then? 

So ask about the estate settlement and I get told that she wants it to hurry up too cuz she's got two college tuitions to worry about, blah blah blah.   I just shut up and didn't even type another word.  My Husband formed the Wynn Wagner College Tuition Foundation and prior to the horrendous Bernie Madoff destruction of so many people's life savings, he had planned on leaving enough of that money for the kids to have help with college in his will certified by a lawyer. 

He and nephew Austin got into a bit of political discourse and Austin suggested that Uncle Wynn/Sven "unfollow" him.  Well, that being said, Uncle Hus did better, he decided to "unfriend" him instead.   Cut off the sewage at the source I guess. 

Today I got to MicroCenter with Huz and I've been hoping to buy a new laptop. Rather than wait for the damn estate settlement I decided to pick out two of them, one for each of us and put it on my 10K MasterCard. The card is declined and I'm shocked because I've had to rely on it for medicine and other important bills not realizing how high the balance really was.  So I get depressed and begin to feel like there's some kind of conspiracy that hell bent on putting up brick walls in every positive direction either Sven or I head towards.  Health issues, money issues, emotional issues, and on and on...  Yeah, the Wiccan high priest, and the Old Catholic Priest / Archbishop kicked in the ass when they least expect it.   That will fix them for all the generosity and compassion they offered others freely throughout their lives.  What a concept huh??  Guess again, we get home today and my Husband informs me that two Kick Ass MacBook laptops are in-route for both of us in the next couple days courtesy of the broken assistance of two college funds.  No worries about being too political.  I wonder if a "thank you" card is is order for my nephew Austin?  Whatever, Rock On Dude... and remember, we really do reap what we sow. Early on, mom and dad really didn't want our help so instead of wasting the generosity we decided to use it for ourselves.  Sweet huh?? 

Prince has died...

Prince has died...

posted Apr 22, 2016, 9:48 AM by Rik Wallin
Wow, yesterday was pretty shocking to the world when they learned that the well-known music artist Prince was pronounced dead at only 57.  I'm 54 and that sure was a shock.  They haven't done the autopsy yet but I'm sure going to be curious to know what happened. 

Grocery Clearance Center

Grocery Clearance Center

posted Apr 6, 2016, 7:54 AM by Rik Wallin   [ updated May 10, 2017, 12:15 PM ]
Wow, I just found this on the web and thought it interesting.  It's in Oak Cliff which isn't too far from us and it might be worth checking out.  It sort of looks like a place we used to have in Connecticut called "Railroad Salvage" and I suspect the prices are going to be surprising.

More on this later.... 

Only 54 and Retired? BEWARE

Only 54 and Retired? BEWARE

posted Mar 31, 2016, 8:29 AM by Rik Wallin   [ updated May 10, 2017, 12:16 PM ]
So if you only make $1,200 a month Social Security disability to live on, how do you come up with 4k of Dallas property tax for a house that’s owned with no mortgage? Is annual garbage collection really that expensive?? Am I supposed to stop eating for 4 months? Meanwhile, the RNC complains that we’re being paid too much? Really?? 54 years old, my career and health destroyed by a drunk that didn’t even go to jail, and this is the reality I’m left with? American Dream? Should I start rationing toilet paper sheets before I wipe my ass? Wow, so this is the American Dream huh?

I'm sorry for sounding so depressed but it really sucks when you feel like you're backed into a corner with absolutely no chance of a solution. Fuck, I'm only 54! If my cognitive memory disease wasn't such a mess I'd be out looking for work to supplement things. I guess I just needed a chance to VENT off some of this frustration.

Ohhh yeah, and I didn’t mention the $1.2 million in Stocks/Savings we lost in Mr. Bernard Madoff’s Ponzi scheme. At least he’s in a place where he doesn’t have to worry about being fed or paying bills with next to nothing for all eternity like me and my huz.

HUH? Rik Wallin is a dude that lives in Dallas, TX

Rik Wallin is a dude that lives in Dallas, TX for the past 21 years (As of 2017).  Most of the time, he speaks what's on his mind and comes up with some interesting questions about the meanings of life and why things are the way they are. Things that make ya go huh?? Really? You're not expected to agree with them nor are you supposed to be so ignorant that you care less about the topics either.

As your first visit here, I recommend you start at the bottom of the message list and read your way upward to the newest postings.  

We call this "Bottoms Up" reading. Gee, bet ya never heard that before huh? 

Yet another moment in time!! Wheeeee!

Wow, what a past week. It started with disconnecting my iPad and wireless service and over to a Samsung Galaxy Tab S2. Then with my iPhon...